Is sexual abstinence a viable choice in today dating or courtship scene



God specifies only one partner for life, and not sex outside of marriage

Two parent family is best for children-safest place

No worry about unwanted or outside of marriage pregnancy or disease

Best sex is among married couples

60% of US teens have never had sex


Then why does sexual abstinence receive such a bad rap?

Takes discipline

Is at variance with promotion of free sex in media

Is at variance with culture of abortion

Is at variance with culture of homosexuality, where men have hundreds of sex partners in a year

Is at variance with trying to make it legal to have sex with minors



What do you think?

Uber's founder, Travis Kalanick resigned on Tuesday over a culture of covering up sexual impropireity and harrassment at the ride sharing service's offices.  According to a post at Inc magazine, Uber's management team was guilty of:

  • explicit sexual harassment;
  • gender discrimination;
  • intentional deception;
  • career sabotage; and
  • illegal threats of termination of employment.

Kalanick's resignation was caused by one blog post by former Uber engineer Susan Fowler in her personal blog.

You too can make a huge difference by learning and teaching about the value o sexual abstinence before marriage.

Join us for What is God's Plan for Sex, a training seminar for leaders on July 15th at the Shenandoah River Your Center in Harpers Ferry, WV.

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A New Jesus Movement greater than the one in the 1970's is here now. This time, Jesus moves the hearts of believers to a new understanding of being a bride of Christ. Sexual purity before marriage and faithfulness within marriage take on a whole new meaning and importance. Watch my video blog to understand more about the New Jesus Movement:


Organizations like Urban Life Training that promote sexual abstinence before marriage will play a crucial role in the New Jesus Movement.

Richard Urban
March 30, 2017

Issue Hillary Clinton Positions Donald Trump Positions Hillary Clinton quotes Donald Trump Quotes Other Quotes
Abortion is a woman's unrestricted right Strongly Agrees Opposes Clinton scores 100% by NARAL (National Abortion Rights Action League) on pro-choice voting record I hate the concept of abortion  
Should Planned Parenthood get Federal Funds Yes, strongly agrees No, disagrees "I'm proud to stand with Planned Parenthood, I’ll never stop fighting to protect the ability and right of every woman in this country to make her own health decisions" Planned Parenthood should absolutely be defunded.  
Supports partial-birth abortion Yes No Voted NO on banning partial birth abortions except for maternal life.   Mike Pence: What I can't understand is with Hillary Clinton, and now Senator Kaine by her side, to support a practice like partial birth abortion....The very idea that a child that is almost born into the world could still have their life taken from them is just anathema to me, and I can't conscience about a party that supports that.
Believes in the Sanctity of Life No Yes     Mike Pence: The sanctity of life proceeds out of the belief, that ancient principle, where God says before you were formed in the womb I knew you.
Supports Same-Sex Marriage Yes, strongly supports Opposes Supports "I just don't feel good about it. I don't feel right about it. I'm against it, and I take a lot of heat because I come from New York. You know, for New York it's like, how can you be against gay marriage? But I'm opposed to gay marriage." "Hillary Clinton supports marriage equality and hopes the Supreme Court will come down on the side of same-sex couples being guaranteed that constitutional right"
Keep God in the Public Square Mixed Opinions Strongly Supports "Far too many women are still denied critical access to reproductive health care and safe childbirth,... And deep-seated cultural codes, religious beliefs and structural biases have to be changed." What offends me is the way our religious beliefs are being treated in public. There are restrictions on what you can say and what you can't say, as well as what you can put up in a public area. The belief in the lessons of the Bible has had a lot to do with our growth and success. That's our tradition, and for more than 200 years it has worked very well. For years you'd have beautiful mangers in public spaces and nobody complained about it. Now? Mary and the baby Jesus are seldom shown. Even the word "Christmas" has somehow become controversial. Who in the world could be offended by someone saying "Merry Christmas"?! That greeting isn't critical of any other religion, and it isn't being disrespectful to those who practice another religion. It's a wonderful tradition. The same people who demand respect for their beliefs often don't show respect for the beliefs of others. It seems like every week there is a negative ruling on some issue having to do with Christianity. I think it's outrageous.  
Supports teaching abstinence from sex before marriage Opposes ? Speaking on defunding Planned Parenthood: "We’ve seen them in Florida where Jeb Bush funneled millions of taxpayer dollars into abstinence-only programs while gutting funds for crucial family planning programs."